# but who is not engaged "but whose parents have not promised another man that she will marry him" # lies with her This is a euphemism. Alternate translation: "has sexual relations with her" (See: [[rc://en/ta/man/translate/figs-euphemism]]) # if they are discovered This can be stated in active form. Alternate translation: "if somebody finds out what happened" (See: [[rc://en/ta/man/translate/figs-activepassive]])