\v 4 But if a widow has children or grandchildren, let them first learn to show honor in their own household. Let them repay their parents, because this is pleasing to God.
\v 8 But if someone does not provide for his own relatives, especially for those of his own household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.
\v 9 Let a woman be enrolled as a widow who is not younger than sixty, a wife of one husband.
\v 10 She must be known for good deeds, whether it is that she has cared for children, or has been hospitable to strangers, or has washed the feet of the believers, or has relieved the afflicted, or has been devoted to every good work.
\v 13 At the same time, they also become accustomed to being lazy and going around from house to house. Not only do they become those who are lazy, but they also become gossips and busybodies, talking about things they should not say.
\v 21 I solemnly command you before God and Christ Jesus and the chosen angels, that you keep these commands without partiality, and to do nothing out of favoritism.