# General Information: Here the words "himself" and "he" refer to Christ. The word "her" refers to the church. # love your wives Here "love" refers to unselfish serving or giving love to wives. # gave himself up "allowed people to kill him" # for her Paul speaks of the assembly of believers as though it were a woman whom Jesus will marry. Alternate translation: "for us" (See: [[rc://en/ta/man/translate/figs-metaphor]])