## she urged him ##

AT: "Achsah urged Othniel"

## Since you have set me in the land of the Negev ##

Caleb gave Achsah in marriage to Othniel, so she lived with Othniel in the city that he had captured in the Negev. AT: "Since you sent me to the land of the Negev" or "Since you have given me in marriage to  live in the Negev"