This is a euphemism. See how this is translated in ([Leviticus 18:7](../18/07.md). Alternate translation: "Do not have sexual relations with" (See: [[rc://en/ta/man/jit/figs-euphemism]])
This can be translated in active form. Alternate translation: "whether she grew up at your home or far away from you" (See: [[rc://en/ta/man/jit/figs-activepassive]])